So, in other words, I guess a soft man is one who has feelings. Who listens. And who is cool with his partner having a job?

This sounds fine to me? I don’t know… what am I missing?

Well, a lot, apparently. Because where there is a hot take, there’s another one to counter it just around the corner. People who are “against soft men” say these traits make them, essentially, too feminine.

To which I say… so what’s wrong with being feminine?